{"id":10809,"date":"2026-04-09T15:24:55","date_gmt":"2026-04-09T08:24:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/portalutama.net\/index.php\/2026\/04\/09\/pernikahan-kakek-71-tahun-dan-siswi-18-tahun-di-luwu-antara-cinta-tekanan-sosial-dan-celah-aturan\/"},"modified":"2026-04-09T15:24:55","modified_gmt":"2026-04-09T08:24:55","slug":"pernikahan-kakek-71-tahun-dan-siswi-18-tahun-di-luwu-antara-cinta-tekanan-sosial-dan-celah-aturan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/portalutama.net\/index.php\/2026\/04\/09\/pernikahan-kakek-71-tahun-dan-siswi-18-tahun-di-luwu-antara-cinta-tekanan-sosial-dan-celah-aturan\/","title":{"rendered":"Pernikahan Kakek 71 Tahun dan Siswi 18 Tahun di Luwu: Antara Cinta, Tekanan Sosial, dan Celah Aturan"},"content":{"rendered":" \r\n

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Fajar.co.id \u2013 Di balik viralnya pernikahan pria 71 tahun dengan gadis 18 tahun di Kabupaten Luwu, Sulawesi Selatan, tersimpan pertanyaan yang lebih dalam dari sekadar selisih usia 53 tahun: apakah ini murni pilihan pribadi, atau ada faktor lain yang luput dari perhatian publik?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pernikahan antara H. Buhari (71) dan TA (18), yang masih berstatus siswi SMA, berlangsung di Desa Batu Lappa, Kecamatan Larompong Selatan, Minggu (5\/4\/2026), dan dengan cepat menyebar luas di media sosial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Di Antara Narasi \u201cSuka Sama Suka\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pihak pemerintah desa melalui Kepala Desa Batu Lappa, Muhammad Arsad, menegaskan bahwa pernikahan tersebut tidak melibatkan aparat desa dan disebut berlangsung tanpa paksaan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cYang kami dengar, hubungan mereka atas dasar suka sama suka. Tidak ada paksaan,\u201d ujar Arsad.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Namun, dalam banyak kasus pernikahan usia muda di Indonesia, frasa \u201csuka sama suka\u201d kerap menjadi lapisan paling luar dari realitas yang lebih kompleks\u2014mulai dari tekanan keluarga, norma sosial, hingga faktor ekonomi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apakah benar sepenuhnya tanpa tekanan? Pertanyaan ini masih menggantung, mengingat tidak adanya pendampingan atau pengawasan resmi dalam proses tersebut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Usia 18 Tahun: Legal atau Abu-abu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Secara hukum, usia TA yang baru 18 tahun memunculkan persoalan serius. Undang-Undang Nomor 16 Tahun 2019 menetapkan batas minimal usia menikah adalah 19 tahun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cKalau umur 18 tahun tentu belum memenuhi syarat sesuai undang-undang,\u201d kata Arsad.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Jika tidak melalui dispensasi pengadilan, maka pernikahan ini berpotensi berada di wilayah abu-abu secara administratif. Sayangnya, hingga kini belum ada penjelasan terbuka apakah dispensasi tersebut diajukan atau tidak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kondisi ini memperlihatkan adanya celah dalam pengawasan praktik pernikahan di tingkat lokal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ketimpangan Usia dan Relasi Kuasa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Selisih usia 53 tahun bukan hanya angka, tetapi juga mencerminkan kemungkinan ketimpangan relasi kuasa\u2014baik secara psikologis, sosial, maupun ekonomi.<\/p>\n\t \n\n\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n
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